My Resolutions Are Ready!

This year has been particularly hard for me, in terms of finding the perfect resolutions to complete. In the past, I have tried things that I knew I needed to work on and become better with for whatever reason. Did that work? Most times it actually did. In fact, I am one of those goal-oriented people. Like, I just really love creating a to-do list and crossing things off. I also love planning things out and seeing them come together at a later time.

So why is 2020 so different? Why has this been so difficult for me? Because this year, I am really wanting to push myself and put myself to the ultimate challenge. Now, that does not by any means mean that I am going to set myself up for failure and set an unrealistic goal. It is quite the opposite really. It just means that I am not picking something that I know I can do overnight, just for the sake of saying, "yay! I did it!" No, I want to set a goal that I have to work for.

This year, I have decided to set goals that I maybe have struggled with in the past or things that I have never even attempted before. A true challange.

Why does it even matter that these goals are much harder than those in the past? What more will I get out of it? Everything. It is much more significant for me, personally. First, let us discuss why it matters. It matters because once I achieve these goals, it just allows me to know that I can do hard things. Just because something is hard, that does not mean I can shy away or give up. In fact, it is more of a reason to give them a try. You do not want to live your life in your comfort zones. You must step outside of those comfortable places if you want to grow into something or someone that is bigger, better, and stronger than who you currently are. Next, what more will you get out of it? Just think of how great it feels when you complete something you know you can do. Now, imagine the sense of accomplishment and an even greater sense of achievement you will feel once you achieve something you never thought was possible. It will feel invigorating for many more years to come.

So what are the resolutions are why are they significant?

1. To Be Consistent: This may actually come as a shocker but I am not always consistent in all things. Now, do not get me wrong, there are many things that are easy for me to be consistent with at all times. For example, I have no problem being consistent in activities with Max because (just look at the little face!) he is the sweetest and I enjoy being with him. It is not hard for me to intentionally direct time and effort to be with him. The same goes for school and staying on top of my school work because I just love school and learning new things. However, it is hard for me to stay on top of going to the gym, self-care, and meditating. Especially when I start seeing results. It is like if I see good results then I think its time to slack, smh. This is important to me because I know that everything I want is on the other side of being consistent day in and day out.

2. Blog on a More Frequent Schedule: I love blogging and I have done it for many years. However, I would love to transform my blog into a resource rather than just something for enjoyment. This year, I would like to do more "mini-series" about specific topics that I am passionate about and perhaps even switch the tone up a little bit. I believe this will allow me to grow as a writer and further develop my writing portfolio. I have not found a schedule that I am going with yet but I have been researching some since in quarantine. I am excited to see where this takes my blog.

3. Complete Semester 1 of Nursing School: This is something that I am very excited about, as you can imagine! I was accepted into Nursing school about two years ago and I decided to defer my enrollment for a variety of reasons, Max being one of them. Well now things are finally aligned and I feel confident enough to "just go for it." I am currently in pharm and will start the actual program with clinical in August. I cannot wait to see all the things I learn as I grow into my new career.

4. Reach Milestone 2 of My Weightloss: As I have mentioned previously, I am on WW and I love it. I think it is a great program and it is very easy. While I have stopped my paid subscription, I am still staying within the limits and seeing the weight come off. I have also continued my workout routine but due to the COVID-19 outbreak our gym is now closed and I have been doing home workout videos. Do I plan to go back to the paid subscription? Actually, yes. I will go back if I feel the weight is not coming off or if I feel like I am having a hard time sticking to my points without the app. Until then, I will use self-discipline and do it without paying for the app.

5. Get (AT LEAST) One Paid Client: In the past, I have been pretty quiet about my life coaching journey and the services I offer. In a way, I expect people to find me, if they need my help or when they are ready for my services but now I know that is not necessarily true. Some people do know when they need extra help but others may not realize it. Just like some people may not even be aware of what a life coach is or how a life coach helps their clients. This year, I would like to do a better job of sharing my journey to becoming a life coach and how I can help others. I know this will translate into a paid client, whether it is in the form of a freelance writing opportunity, enrolling a new client, or another opportunity. When someone knows your story and they can see your work, they are more willing to come along for the ride.

Heres to 2020!